--- In caroltuttle@y..., "caroltuttle2001" <carol@c...> wrote: News and Notes from Carol Tuttle April, 2002 Carol is the author of the newly released 2002 expanded edition of "Remembering Wholeness: A Personal Handbook for Thriving in the 21st Century." Also, now available on Audio CD. To purchase the new edition and/or CD see below for details. For more information about Carol, her book, and her work as a Certified-Master level Rapid Eye Therapist go to www.caroltuttle.com ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Contents: 1. Children and Pessimism 2. Carol in the News and Media 3. New 2002 "Expanded" Edition of Remembering Wholeness 4. Remembering Wholeness now on Audio CD 5. Remembering Wholeness goes nationwide 6. Reader's Success Stories 7. Therapeutic Gemstones 8. Carol's Upcoming Events ---------------------------------------------------------------------- 1. Children and Pessimism Children can become pessimistic if they are not emotionally being heard and validated. Children need emotional validation. If their negative feelings about what is happening in their life are not validated they often persist focusing on the negative until they are validated. As a parent of four children, I have learned to not skip this important step in emotionally acknowledging my children. Before I realized how important this was I was eager to try and quickly change their negative feelings and views of their life in to positives. Once the negative feelings have been validated you can give your child a choice, a choice to continue to perceive their situation as negative, or to choose to change it to a positive. The first choice teaches our children to be victims in a world of random events they are powerless to. The second choice teaches them they have the power to change anything for the better. Recently my daughter came to me expressing her negative feelings about her friend's negative treatment towards her. I could have quickly dismissed her feelings and encouraged her to "not let it bother her," or joined her by saying, "that is terrible, she is so mean." I did neither. Instead the conversation went something like this: Mom: "That is unfortunate Anne, you must feel really sad about the way she treated you." Anne: "I do. I don't like it when she treats me that way." Mom: "I understand. Nobody likes to be treated that way. You deserve to have your friends love and respect you. When you are ready to clear these negative feelings, and would like my help, let me know. Remember, whatever you focus on in life, you will have more of it show up as your experience." Anne: "I want to clear these bad feelings right now and create a positive friendship with her." At this point I took Anne through a process called "Emotional Freedom Technique" (www.emofree.com), which is designed to clear negative feelings and stressful energies that keep us from progressing. I have taught my children that the law of attraction, or the law of the harvest, which is whatever we put out, returns to us multiplied, is in constant operation in their lives. If they putout negative thoughts and feelings, they will get more negative experiences showing up their lives. If they putout positive thoughts and feelings, they will get more positive experiences showing up in their lives. Anne understands this universal principle and was eager to clear the negative thoughts and feelings and change them into positives. It was important that her negative feelings be acknowledge and validated first. Most adults in our world were not emotionally validated. They were emotionally shutdown or ignored. As parents we can do a much better job of validating our children's emotional response to their lives events, free of any judgment. Once validated, those negative thoughts and feelings can be easily released and positive thoughts and feelings can be created. After Anne cleared her negatives, she decided what she wanted to create was a fun-loving, kinder relationship with her friend. She helped put this into motion in her life by speaking what she wanted in positive "I am" statements like this: I am experiencing all my friends respecting me and being kind to me. I am respectful and kind to all my friends We have fun together and support each other Things always work out the best for me I am grateful for the love and support of my good friends. After Anne's energy clearing session, she called her friend and easily made amends. Her friend was apologetic, they laughed and started planning their next activity. What Anne had asked for in her affirmations had already begun to show-up for her. Children model their parent's perception and language about the world. If mom and dad are pessimistic, the children often are too. If mom and dad are optimists, that are willing to validate their child's negative emotional response to a situation, and then help them change that, they play a powerful role in teaching their children they can have lives that are positive with many successes to look forward to. Copyright, Carol Tuttle, 2002 ---------------------------------------------------------------------- 2. Carol in the News and Media **Pick up a copy of the May issue of Redbook Magazine, where Carol appears on page 54. It is the yellow one with Prince William on the front! **Go to To http://www.portlandtribune.com/archview.cgi?email&id=9601 and learn more about therapeutic gemstones in this Portland Tribune article. Carol was interviewed and shares her experience with these powerful energy tools in the article. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- 3. Newly Released 2002 "Expanded" Edition of Remembering Wholeness Purchase your new edition online now for a significant discount http://www.caroltuttle.com/purchasebook.html 10 new chapters 100 additional pages "This new edition is remarkable. It is worth getting even if you have the original copy. The new information is so timely. Thanks Carol for another great contribution." - Cindy ---------------------------------------------------------------------- 4. Remembering Wholeness Audio CD now available 6 CD set Read by Author Carol Tuttle Unabridged Approx. 7 hours "Listening to the CD of Remembering Wholeness is so powerful. I am picking up on so much more that I dinn't even realize I missed. I listen to it over and over, just to get these life skills and principles in my mind and body so it becomes second nature to me." - Joan To learn about the special discounts go to http://www.caroltuttle.com/purchasebook.html ---------------------------------------------------------------------- 5. Remembering Wholeness Goes Nationwide Dear Carol Tuttle, Congratulations! As you know, Barnes & Noble has purchased Remembering Wholeness for placement in almost 600 superstores nationwide. Each B&N superstore will have 3 or 4 books and there will be extra inventory in the B&N distribution center to re-stock stores. Remembering Wholeness is one of six iUniverse books that B&N picked to be part of the Best of iUniverse promotion that begins around March 15 and runs through the middle of May. As part of this promotion, we're also going to feature Remembering Wholeness on our website. On about March 25, we will begin to feature books on our site and we'll run an Author Spotlight feature in the Bookstore. We'll also have promotional placement other parts of our website. Be sure to visit the site! Believe us when we say that we're as excited as you are about this opportunity. Now is the perfect time to start creating the demand from your readers that will pull Remembering Wholeness off the shelves at Barnes & Noble and through their cash registers! . Best wishes for continued success, Steven S. Goodrich www.iUniverse.com Publishing To Read Carol's "AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT" on the iUniverse site go to: http://www.iuniverse.com/bookstore/article_display.asp?id=18523 ---------------------------------------------------------------------- 6. Success Stories ANGELS SAVE A LIFE "I am a rapid eye tech and purchased your first book in 1996. When this book came out I was really excited to get it. I enjoyed it very much and I have attended your workshops in Mesa. I gave a copy of your book to my mother-in-law. Last January she was walking two block from her car to her office at about 6 am. A man told her to go back to her car, she ignored him. He came up behind her and grabbed her around the neck. He was chocking her and hitting her. She felt like she was going to pass out and relized that this person was going to really hurt or kill her. She called out in her mind saying "where are my angels?" At that point she got enough air to screem for help. A man in a nearby apartment happened to look out his window and came to her aid. She suffered cuts and bruises and a mild heart attack, but she lived. I asked her why she called for angels (I had forgotten that I gave her your book) she said that it was your book that promped her to do that! She said that she read your book twice. Most books she can't even get through bacause she falls asleep. Thank you Carol for your message. You are helping people in more ways than you can realize. Love and Light Bonnie Carter THE POWER OF THE CIRCLE At your seminar on manifesting the life You want to live, you described the circle of positive energy. Mind you, I am in the midst of getting off depression meds and also taking care of my body which is fighting a particularly insidious flu virus. I had also had some buttons pushed by Mom last night and didn't sleep well. My mind was reeling with "should have said this; shouldn't have said that". That's the scenario. Reason finally crystalizes in the form of, "Why not try the energy circle?" So I did, during which time I realized many more reasons to be grateful that I had originally thought. This took about 10 minutes. Then I stepped into the circle, and immediately felt the most awesome love and incredible happiness causing me to laugh heartily and dance around the kitchen. I instantly felt connected to Father again after being away for several days. I also know the flu is on it's way out. What power we wield when we choose the positive! Thanks for sharing your impressive knowledge and radiant spirit. Affectionately, Ilene ---------------------------------------------------------------------- 7. Therapeutic Gemstones To learn about therapeutic gemstones go to www.gemisphere.com I learned about the gemstones about 6 years ago. I did some research and it made sense to me that these tools had the ability to work with our energy to give us powerful assistance. Many amazing and powerful things have occured for myself and my family as a result of using these energy tools. The thing I like the best about them is you just have to put them on. That's it. It is one of the most no-brainer energy interventions I know of! -Carol Tuttle This month Gemisphere is featuring the gemstone Sodalight. You might benefit from wearing Sodalight when - Your emotions are clouded with excessive mental clutter - Your physical healing is being impeded by mental clutter - You are continually feeling overwhelmed or burdened - You are having difficulty distinguishing between your own thoughts, emotions and goals, and those projected by others. Sodalight is 10% off the month of April. Prices begin at $125. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- 8. Carol's Upcoming Events Carol will be criss-crossing the country this summer giving seminars, free lectures and book signings. To veiw her full schedule and learn more about the events listed below go to: www.caroltuttle.com ------ APRIL ------ April 13: SALT LAKE CITY. Radio Show. Dave's Health and Nutrition Call-in radio show 9:00 - 10:00 a.m. KDYL 1280 AM. April 13: SALT LAKE CITY. Book signing 10:30 - 12:00 noon. Dave's Health and Nutrition store, 1108 E. 3300 S. April 16: SALT LAKE CITY. Free Lecture. "Emotional Freedom Technique" 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Dave's Health and Nutrition, 1108 E. 3300 S. April 27: NASHVILLE, TN. Carol and her husband Jon will be running the "Country Music Marathon" ----- MAY ----- May 3: BOISE, IDAHO. Free Lecture/Book signing. Barnes and Noble 7:00-9:00 p.m. 1315 N. Milwaukee. MaY 4: BOISE, IDAHO. "Manifesting Your Wealth and Prosperity" 9 a.m. - 12 noon. Contact: Sandra Connell, 208-353-7977, rconnell@s... Pre-register: $32, registration at door: $37. Pre-gister by sending a check made out to Carol Tuttle and mailing to : Sandra Connell, 6902 Northview, Boise ID 83704. Pre- register online by going to http://www.caroltuttle.com/events.html May 8: MESA, AZ. "Manifesting Your Wealth and Prosperity" How to release patterns of debt and create more money! 7:00 - 9:30 p.m. Contact: Carol Larson, healthy4u2@m..., 480-964-1125. Location: Mesa Community Center, Apache Room, 263 N. Center St., Mesa, AZ. $25 per person. Register online by clicking Paypal icon below http://www.caroltuttle.com/events.html May 10: MESA, AZ. Book signing, B. Dalton Booksellers, 5:00 -7:00 p.m. 6555 E. Southern Ave., Superstition Springs Ctr. May 11: CHANDLER, AZ. Free Lecure/Book signing. Barnes and Noble, 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 3111 W. Chandler Blvd., Chandler Fashion Ctr. Mall May 16: SALT LAKE CITY. "Manifesting Your Wealth and Prosperity" 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Best Western CottonTree Inn, Sandy, UT. 10695 S. Auto Mall Dr. (I-15 & 10600 S.) $25 per person (registration begins at 6:30 p.m.) Pre-register Online at http://www.caroltuttle.com/events.html May 24: IRVNE, CA. Radio Show. "The Surprise Party Show" 9:00 - 10:00 a.m. KUCI 88.9 FM May 30: TRI-CITIES, WA. Free Lecture/Book signing. Barnes and Noble at Columbia Center. 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. 700 Columbia Ctr. Blvd., Kennewick, WA ------ JUNE ------ June 2: SALT LAKE CITY. Keynote Fireside Speaker. LDS Substance Abuse and Recovery Mission. "Receive Your Healing Now!" 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. LDS Chapel, 9800 South 235 East Sandy, Utah. June 3: SALT LAKE CITY. Book signing. Ft. Union Barnes and Noble 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Murray, UT. June 4: SANDY, UT. My oldest son graduates from high school! June 5-9: NAUVOO, ILL. I am traveling with my family to Nauvoo to visit the Temple and see our oldest daughter perform as a Performance Missionary. She was chosen out of 140 young adult females who auditioned. June 10: CINCINNATI, OH. Free Lecture/Book signing. Barnes and Noble. 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 7800 Montgomery Rd. Kenwood/Montgomery Rd. June 13: AUSTIN, TX Free Lecture/Signing. "The 10 Lies We Think are Love" The Village at Westlake Barnes and Noble. 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 701 S. Capitol of Texas Hwy. June 15: SALT LAKE CITY. Radio Show. Dave's Health and Nutrition Call- in radio show. 9:00 - 10:00 a.m. KDYL 1280 AM. June 15: SALT LAKE CITY. Book signing. 10:30 - 12:00 noon. Dave's Health and Nutrition store. 1108 E. 3300 S. June 25: SALT LAKE CITY. Free Lecture. Topic to be announced.6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Dave's Health and Nutrition Store. 1108 E. 330O S. June 20: ATLANTA, GA. Free Lecture/Book signing. Phoenix and Dragon Bookstore. 7:00- 9:00 p.m. 5531 Roswell Rd. June 21: SALT LAKE CITY. "How to Petition Your Angels." 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Best Western Cotton Tree Inn, Sandy, Utah, 10695 S. Auto Mall Dr. (I-15 & 10600 S.) Pre-registration: $20. Register at the door: $25 (registration begins at 6:30 p.m.) Pre-register by sending a check to: Carol Tuttle, 1921 East Ryan Park Ave., Sandy, UT 84092 Pre-register Online at http://www.caroltuttle.com/events.html June 22: SALT LAKE CITY. All-Day Seminar "It's Time to Heal Ourselves and Our Families" (Seating is limited, so pre-register early) 9:30 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Best Western Cotton Tree Inn, Sandy, Utah, 10695 S. Auto Mall Dr. (I-15 & 10600 S.) Pre-registration: $65, Register at door: $75 To pre-register send a check to Carol Tuttle, 1921 East Ryan Park Ave., Sandy, Utah 84092. Pre-register online at http://www.caroltuttle.com/events.html ------ JULY ------ July 2: OREM, UT. Free Lecture/Book signing. Barnes and Noble. 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. 330 E. 1300 S. July 9: ST. LOUIS, MI. Free Lecture/Book signing. Ladue Barnes and Noble. 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. I-170 and Ladue Road. July 13: BOISE, ID. "Manifesting Your Ideal Weight and Optimum Health" 9 a.m. - 1 p.m. Ameritel Inn, Town Square, 7965 W. Emerald. Contact: Sandra Connell, 208-353-7977, rconnell@s... Pre-register: $42, registration at door: $47 Pre-gister by sending a check made out to Carol Tuttle and mailing to : Sandra Connell, 6902 Northview, Boise ID 83704 Pre-register online at http://www.caroltuttle.com/events.html July 19: SPOKANE, WA. "Healing Your Relationships, Creating Healthy Ones" Including "The 10 Lies We Think are Love." 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. To register contact: Naomi Brown, 208-676-8147. Pre-registration: $20, register at door: $25 Pre-register online at http://www.caroltuttle.com/events.html July 20: SPOKANE, WA. Free Lecture/Book signing. Valley Barnes and Noble. 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. 15320 East Indiana, Spokane, WA July 24: SALT LAKE CITY. Carol will be running the Deseret News marathon with her good friend Julie Barrett. Julie is 70 years young and has run 100 marathons. She started running at age 47. She is one of my heroes! ---------------------------------------------------------------------- PLEASE FORWARD THIS EMAIL TO ANYONE THAT IS INTERESTED IN THIS INFORMATION. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- TO READ PAST ISSUES OF CAROL'S NEWS AND NOTES GO TO: http://www.caroltuttle.com/newsand.html ---------------------------------------------------------------------- TO SUBCRIBE SEND AN EMAIL TO CAROL@C... WITH THE MESSAGE SUBCRIBE. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- --- End forwarded message ---